AT-TABARRUJ

By ADEDEJI ROFEE`AH – INTER. RELATIONS PART 3.
BISMILLAAHI RAHMONI RAHEEM
There are many meanings to at-tabarruj according to (different) scholars. According to Imaam Al-Albanee (Rahimahullaah), He said “Tabarruj is when a woman exposes her adornment, body features and all that she is obligated to cover which invites the desire of men”. (Mar`at -il- Muslimah, page 54). The messenger of Allaah (may the peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: And the worst of hyprocrites and none from amongst them (i.e these women) will enter Paradise except (those who are) like the crow (Reported by Al-Bayhadi in his Sunan 7/82) and authenticated by Al-Albanee in his as-Saheeha (4/1849).
A woman is considered to be neglecting Hijab when she exposes some of her beauty or adornment that she has to cover under sharee`ah before non-mahram men (i.e men that are marriageable to her). This includes exposure of the woman`s beauty and adornment such as her jewellery, her arms, legs, chest, neck and face. Sheik Abu Al-A`la Al-Mawdoodi, may Allaah have mercy upon him, said “The word tabarruj when used in relation to woman, has three meanings;
When she exposes the beauty of her face and body before non-mahram.
When she exposes the beauty of her cloth and jewelry before them.
When she exposes herself before them through the way she walks and moves.
Also, tabarruj is an unchaste sin. The woman is Awrah, a source of attraction and therefore, her body is not to be shown by wearing clothes that show off her body, it shape and features; doing such is disgraceful. Allaah (Subhanahu wa ta`ala ) orders us to stay away from disgraceful sins, “And when they commits faahishaah (evil deeds, every kind of unlawful sexual intercourse, etc). They say “we found our fathers doing it and Allaah has commanded us of it. `say` Nay, Allaah never commands faahishaa. Do you say of Allaah what you know not?” (Al-A`raf[7]:28). Rather, it is shaytaan who orders such faahishaah, such disgraceful sins. Allaah (Subhanahu wa ta`ala ) says “Shaytaan (satan) threatens you with poverty and orders you to commit faahishaah (evil deeds, illegal sexual intercourse, sins etc); whereas Allaah promises you forgiveness from Himself and Bounty, and All is All- sufficient for his creatures` needs, All-knower” ( Al-Baqarah[2]:268). The mutabaarijat, those who do at-tabarruj (displays their beauty) create a sinful virus which spreads disgraceful sins in the Muslim society. Allah says, “Verily, those who like that (the crime of) illegal sexual intercourse should be propagated among those who believe, they will have a painful torment in this world and in the Hereafter. And Alllah Knows and you know not.” (An-Nur[24]:19).
Tabarruj is prohibited by the Qur`aan , the Sunnah of the prophet (Sallaahu `alayhi wa salaam), as well as the Muslims` concensus. All the woman`s body is `Awrah (parts of the body that must be covered) and it is prohibited that non-mahram men see any part of her body, hair adornment or inner clothes (what is underneath the loose outer garment). How most women currently do when they neglect the Hijab as well as expose their beauty and adornment of gold, and so on, features disobedience to Allaah the Almighty in public, imitation of non-muslim women and the excitement of temptation.
When a woman goes out with her head, neck, chest, arms or legs uncovered, it is one of the greatest evils that violates the pure sharee`ah. Going out of the home tempting and being tempted neglecting the Hijab, exposing the adornment, wearing perfume, exposing the body and outer mixing with non-mahram men, wearing of flashy hijabs is one of the grave major sins and the most harmful temptation which displeases Allaah and entails his wrath and punishment.
Furthermore, tabarruj can be classified as a door to widespread evil. Anyone who carefully examines the Islamic texts, the Qur`aan, the authentic sunnah and the lessons from history will become convinced of the evils and harms of tabarruj, both in the religion and worldly matters. Tabarruj is said to be one of the corruption of morality of men, especially the youth and those in adolescence; it pushes them to commit various kinds of sins. Also, it is another cause for the commercial abuse of women in the media, advertisement, entertainment and many other areas.
Tabarruj is a spread of disease; the Prophet (Salaallaahu `alayhi wa salaam) said, “sins did not spread in any particular nation until openly conducted (their sins) and (the resultant) plague and other illnesses that were common among their predecessors became present amongst them.
Finally, tabarruj is the facilitation of the great sin of Zinaah (adultery and fornication) which is done by the eyes. The Prophet (SallaAllaahu `alayhi wa salaam) said “The adultery of the eyes is lustful look”. (Reported by Muslim) and tabarruj makes it difficult to lower the gaze.
To my dear sisters in Islaam, please let us follow what is in line with the Qur`aan and sunnah in respect of Tabarruj, let us stop displaying our adornment outside our house, carrying flashy bags, wearing of hijabs and shoes that are flashy, all these are also part of our adornments. We claim to love Allaah and the Prophet and yet we keep doing what Allaah and the Prophet did not love. Allah said “ if you really love Allaah then follow me (i.e accept Islamic monotheism, follow the Qur`aan and the Sunnah), Allah will love you and forgive you your sins. Allaah is Oft-forgiving and Most Merciful.” (Al-Imran[3]:32).
I pray Allaah make this write-up beneficial for both the writer and the readers. AS SALAAM `ALAYKUM WARAHMOTULLAAHI WABAAROKATUH.

Conditions of the hijaab…

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakaatuhu, praise be to Allah Subhanna wata’ala who has given us this opprtunity of being alive till this moment, and keeping us as Muslims. We ask Allah to preserve our hearts and make us firm on his Deen.
The issue of the hijab has indeed become a very fragile issue in our society these days, especially because of the misguided efforts of those that claim to be making Islam easy, making many of us neglectful or ignorant of what is truly the prescribed hijab for the Muslimah. Below are the necessary conditions of how a muslimah should dress when leaving her house or in the presence of a non Mahram i.e a man that isn’t related to her by blood. Allah says “… and not to reveal their adornment except to their husbands, or their fathers, or their husband’s fathers, or their sons, or their husband’s sons, or their brothers or their brother’s sons, or their sister’s sons…” [an-Noor 24:31].

THE CONDITIONS OF THE HIJAAB:
Shaykh al-Albaani (may Allaah have mercy on him) explained:

First:
It should cover all the body apart from whatever has been exempted. Allaah says : “O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils) all over their bodies (i.e. screen themselves completely except the eyes or one eye to see the way). That will be better, that they should be known (as free respectable women) so as not to be annoyed. And Allaah is Ever Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.”

This aayah clearly states that it is obligatory to cover all of a woman’s beauty and adornments and not to display any part of that before non-mahram men (“strangers”) except for whatever appears unintentionally, in which case there will be no sin on them if they hasten to cover it up.
Al-Haafiz ibn Katheer said in his Tafseer: This means that they should not display any part of their adornment to non-mahrams, apart from that which it is impossible to conceal. Ibn Mas’ood said: such as the cloak and robe, i.e., what the women of the Arabs used to wear, an outer garment which covered whatever the woman was wearing, except for whatever appeared from beneath the outer garment. There is no sin on a woman with regard to this because it is impossible to conceal it.

Second:
It should not be an adornment in and of itself.
Allaah says: “… and not to show off their adornment…” [al-Noor 24:31]. The general meaning of this phrase includes the outer garment, because if it is decorated it will attract men’s attention to her.This is supported by the aayah in Soorat al-Ahzaab where Allah says “And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance” [al-Ahzaab 33:33]. It is also supported by the hadeeth in which the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “There are three, do not ask me about them: a man who leaves the jamaa’ah, disobey his leader and dies disobedient; a female or male slave who runs away then dies; and a woman whose husband is absent and left her with everything she needs, and after he left she made a wanton display of herself. Do not ask about them .” (Narrated by al-Haakim, 1/119; Ahmad, 6/19; from the hadeeth of Faddaalah bint ‘Ubayd. Its isnaad is saheeh and it is in al- Adab al-Mufrad ).

Third:
It should be opaque and not be transparent or see-through because it cannot cover properly otherwise. Transparent or see-through clothing makes a woman’s body self-descriptive and thus, provocative. Concerning this, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “During the last days of my ummah there will be women who are clothed but naked, with something on their heads like the humps of camels. Curse them, for they are cursed .” Another hadeeth adds: “They will not enter Paradise or even smell its fragrance, although it’s fragrance can be detected from such and such a distance .” (Narrated by Muslim from the report of Abu Hurayrah). Ibn ‘Abd al-Barr said: what the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) meant was women who wear clothes made of light fabric which describes and does not cover. They are clothed in name but naked in reality. Transmitted by al-Suyooti in Tanweer al-Hawaalik , 3/103.

Fourth:
It should be loose, not tight so that it describes any part of the body. The purpose of clothing is to prevent fitnah (temptation), and this can only be achieved if clothes are wide and loose. Tight clothes, even if they conceal the colour of the skin, still describe the size and shape of the body or part of it, and create a vivid image in the minds of men. The corruption or invitation to corruption that is inherent in that is quite obvious. So the clothes must be wide. Usaamah ibn Zayd said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) gave me a thick Egyptian garment that was one of the gifts given to him by Duhyat al-Kalbi, and I gave it to my wife to wear. He said, ‘Why do I not see you wearing that Egyptian garment?’ I said, ‘I gave it to my wife to wear.’ He said, ‘Tell her to wear a gown underneath it, for I am afraid that it may describe the size of her bones.’” (Narrated by al-Diyaa’ al- Maqdisi in al-Ahaadeeth al-Mukhtaarah , 1/442, and by Ahmad and al-Bayhaqi, with a hasan isnaad).

Fifth:
It should not be perfumed with bakhoor or fragrance. There are many ahaadeeth which forbid women to wear perfume when they go out of their houses. We will quote here some of those which have saheeh isnaads: Abu Moosa al-Ash’ari said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Any woman who puts on perfume then passes by people so that they can smell her fragrance, is an adulterer” Zaynab al-Thaqafiyyah reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If any one of you (women) goes out to the mosque, let her not touch any perfume.” Abu Hurayrah said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Any woman who has scented herself with bakhoor (incense), let her not attend ‘Ishaa’ prayers with us.” Moosa ibn Yassaar said that a woman passed by Abu Hurayrah and her scent was overpowering. He said, “O female slave of al-Jabbaar, are you going to the mosque?” She said, “Yes,” He said, “And have you put on perfume because of that?” She said, “Yes.” He said, “Go back and wash yourself, for I heard the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: ‘If a woman comes out to the mosque and her fragrance is overpowering, Allaah will not accept any prayer from her until she goes home and washes herself .’”
These ahaadeeth are general in implication. Just as the prohibition covers perfume applied to the body, it also covers perfume applied to the clothes, especially in the third hadeeth, where bakhoor (incense) is mentioned, because incense is used specifically to perfume the clothes. The reason for this prohibition is quite clear, which is that women’s fragrance may cause undue provocation of desires. The scholars also included other things under this heading of things to be avoided by women who want to go to the mosque, such as beautiful clothes, jewellery that can be seen, excessive adornments and mingling with men. See Fath al- Baari, 2/279. Ibn Daqeeq al-‘Eed said: This indicates that it is forbidden for a woman who wants to go to the mosque to wear perfume, because this causes provocation of men’s desires. This was reported by al-Manaawi in Fayd al-Qadeer , in the commentary on the first hadeeth of Abu Hurayrah quoted above.

Sixth:
It should not resemble the clothing of men. It was reported in the saheeh ahaadeeth that a woman who imitates men in dress or in other ways is cursed. There follow some of the ahaadeeth that we know: Abu Hurayrah said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) cursed the man who wears women’s clothes, and the woman who wears men’s clothes.” ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Amr said: I heard the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: ‘They are not part of us, the women who imitate men and the men who imitate women .’” Ibn ‘Abbaas said: “The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) cursed effeminate men and masculine women. He said, ‘Throw them out of your houses.’” He said: “The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) expelled So and so, and ‘Umar expelled So and so.” According to another version: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) cursed men who imitate women and women who imitate men.” ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Amr said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘There are three who will not enter Paradise and Allaah will not even look at them on the Day of Resurrection: one who disobeys his parents, a woman who imitates men, and the duyooth (cuckold, weak man who feels no jealousy over his womenfolk).” Ibn Abi Maleekah – whose name was ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Ubayd- Allaah – said: “It was said to ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her), ‘What if a woman wears (men’s) sandals?’ She said: ‘The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) cursed women who act like men.’” These ahaadeeth clearly indicate that it is forbidden for women to imitate men and vice versa, This usually includes dress and other matters, apart from the first hadeeth quoted above, which refers to dress only. Abu Dawood said, in Masaa’il al-Imaam Ahmad (p. 261): “I heard Ahmad being asked about a man who dresses his slave woman in a tunic. He said, ‘Do not clothe her in men’s garments, do not make her look like a man .” Abu Dawood said: “I said to Ahmad, Can he give her bachelor sandals to wear? He said, No, unless she wears them to do wudoo’. I said, What about for beauty? He said, No. I said, Can he cut her hair short? He said, No .”

Seventh:
It should not resemble the dress of kaafir women. It is stated in sharee’ah that Muslims, men and women alike, should not resemble or imitate the kuffaar with regard to worship, festivals or clothing that is specific to them. This is an important Islamic principle which nowadays, unfortunately, is neglected by many Muslims, even those who care about religion and calling others to Islam. This is due either to ignorance of their religion, or because they are following their own whims and desires, or because of deviation, combined with modern customs and imitation of kaafir Europe. This was one of the causes of the Muslims’ decline and weakness, which enabled the foreigners to overwhelm and colonize them. “…Verily, Allaah will not change the condition of a people as long as they do not change their state themselves …”It should be known that there is a great deal of sheer evidence for these important rules in the Qur’aan and Sunnah, and that the evidence in the Qur’aan is elaborated upon in the Sunnah, as is always the case.

Eighth:
It should not be a garment of fame and vanity. Ibn ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘Whoever wears a garment of fame and vanity in this world, Allaah will clothe him in a garment of humiliation on the Day of Resurrection, then He will cause Fire to flame up around him.’”

It is not one of these conditions that it should be black. A woman may wear whatever she wants, so long as she does not wear a colour that is only for men , and she does not wear a garment that is an adornment in itself, i.e., decorated and adorned in such a way that it attracts the gaze of men, because of the general meaning of the verse (interpretation of the meaning): “…and not to show off their adornment…” [al-Noor 24:31]

It says in Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah (17/100): It is not permissible for a woman to go out in a decorated garment that attracts people’s gaze, because this is something that tempts men. It also says (17/108): The dress of the Muslim woman need not only be black. It is permissible for her to wear any colour of clothing so long as it covers her ‘awrah, does not resemble men’s clothing, and is not so tight as to show the shape of her limbs or so thin as to show what is beneath it, and does not provoke temptation. And it says (17/109): Wearing black for women is not a must. They may wear other colours that are worn only by women, do not attract attention and do not provoke desire. Many women choose to wear black, not because it is obligatory, but because it is farthest removed from being an adornment. There are reports which indicate that the women of the Sahaabah used to wear black. Abu Dawood (4101) narrated that Umm Salamah said: “When the words ‘and to draw their veils all over Juyoobihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms)’ [al-Noor 24:31 – interpretation of the meaning] were revealed, the women of the Ansaar went out
looking as if there were crows on their heads because of their garments.” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood . The Standing Committee (17/110) said: This is to be understood as meaning that those clothes were black in colour. And Allah knows best, May Allah make it easy for us Sisters to stand firm in this Deen. Ameen

Source 😦 Hijaab al-Mar’ah al-Muslimah , p. 54-67).
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NATURAL SECRETS FOR A LUSCIOUS HAIR

By Tijani Rofee’ah
Salaamun ‘alaykum wa rahmatuLlaahi wa barakaatuhu Akhawaat, hope you have been good.
I would love to take us through  some very interesting methods on how to naturally soften our hairs. While attempting to protect the natural unconditioned state of our hair, it can become quite tricky to manage; it tend to be very tough and painful because we have not applied relaxers to it…
You don’t have to go through these stress and pains again, here are some natural ways of dealing with a tough and stubborn hair;

1. Egg Treatment

Eggs are the most commonly used for hair softening. Their protein content and lecithin helps in strengthening and moisturizing hair while adding shine and texture to it.
There are three ways one can use eggs:

Mix three eggs with one tablespoon of honey and two tablespoons of either coconut or olive oil. Damp your scalp and hair. After applying this mixture thoroughly, cover your hair with a shower cap for thirty minutes. Wash off with lukewarm water and a mild shampoo.
Mix a half cup of yoghurt with 1 ½ tablespoon of almond oil. Add this to two beaten eggs until the texture becomes creamy. Apply this to the hair and scalp. Cover your hair for thirty minutes and shampoo normally.

Take one tablespoon each of vinegar, olive oil and almond oil and mix with three eggs. Add a few drops of rosemary essential oil to this. Massage your hair and scalp with the mixture. Cover for approximately thirty minutes and then wash your hair as usual.

2. Hot Oil Treatment

Natural oils are yet another amazing remedy when it comes to treating hair. Oils not only repair rough, crisp hair, but also strengthen it, preventing further damage. For dry hair, oils such as olive oil, coconut oil, castor oil and almond oil all are particularly proved to be miraculous. They can be used either individually or together as a blend. In order to enhance the effect of these oils, a few drops of lemon, lavender, rosemary, chamomile, sage, carrot, or yarrow essential oil are also sometimes added to the mixture.
The procedure for this remedy is simple. For normal-length hair, heat four tablespoons of oil over low heat in a saucepan until it is lukewarm. Massage your hair from the roots to the tips. Covering it with a hot towel will open the pores and help absorb the oil. Afterwards, leave for twenty minutes or overnight. Wash your hair normally.

3. Honey Hair Mask

Honey is well known for its ability to moisten and nourish the hair by retaining moisture.
This can be used in three effective ways:
Wash hair and apply a half cup of honey while they are damp. Cover with a shower cap or towel and leave for approximately thirty minutes. Rinse with lukewarm water. Add about half of mashed avocado, a tablespoon of coconut oil and an egg yolk to half-cup honey. Apply to damp hair and leave for thirty minutes. As usual, wash afterwards. Add honey to shampoo and utilize it regularly.

4. Avocado and Banana Hair Mask

When mixed together, these two fruits make the perfect treatment for damaged hair. Where banana increases the elasticity of hair and prevents split ends, avocado moisturizes and nourishes the hair. Mash one banana and one avocado. Add a half tablespoon of almond oil. Apply the mixture to the scalp and hair thoroughly. Leave for approximately thirty to sixty minutes. Ensure that the hair is covered and afterwards, wash with warm water.

5. Aloe Vera

Another miracle of nature is Aloe Vera. Its function prevents dandruff and hair loss while restoring the shine and moisture of hair. Cut leaves from the Aloe Vera plant first and ensure that a sharp knife is used when carefully removing the skin. Afterwards, scrape out as much jelly as possible. Take three to four tablespoons of this jelly and mix 1 ½ tablespoon of coconut oil and 3 tablespoons of yoghurt with it.
Apply the mixture to the hair and leave for about twenty to thirty minutes. Wash with shampoo when done.

6. Apple Cider Vinegar

Apple cider vinegar is a naturally occurring hair-conditioner. It not only moistens the hair but cleanses it thoroughly as well, removing any residues of synthetic hair products. It maintains the pH balance of the
scalp preventing dandruff and dryness.
The first thing to do is mix a half cup of apple cider vinegar with a cup of water. Apply the mixture to damp hair and leave for around ten to fifteen minutes. Afterwards, rinse thoroughly with lukewarm water.

7. Essential Oils

Essential oils are widely used to soften the hair. They have the ability to stimulate sebaceous glands, which produce sebum responsible for the moisture and luster of hair. Lavender, rosemary, lemon, chamomile, geranium, birch, carrot, sage, yarrow and rosewood are some of the well-known essential oils.
Combine four drops of any of the essential oils with six tablespoons of another oil. Warm this mixture until it is lukewarm. Massage hair in circular motions with fingertips for about ten minutes. Then cover
your hair and leave overnight.

8. Healthy Diet

While all these remedies aid in bringing texture to the hair from the outside, long-lasting soft hair needs to be healthy from the inside as well.
Therefore, foods such as fish, walnuts, spinach, blueberries, dairy products, lentils, eggs, which contain zinc, biotin, vitamin A, C and E, omega 3 and omega 6 fatty acid are highly recommended.
Furthermore, drinking lots of water will help in removing various toxins from the body, thus preventing dryness from occurring..

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